India–Bangladesh Relations: Between the Rhetoric of Friendship and the Reality

 In recent times, questions have been raised about India–Bangladesh relations. For many people in Bangladesh, the central question now is: Does India truly regard Bangladesh as a friend, or as a neighboring country that should remain under its influence? Friendship is not proven by words alone; it is demonstrated through conduct, mutual respect, and recognition of each other's sovereignty.

The expansion of India's military infrastructure near Bangladesh's borders has generated concern. BrahMos missile-related facilities near the Sylhet border, increased military preparations around the Siliguri Corridor, and the modernization of air bases such as Panagarh have heightened Bangladesh's security concerns. While India explains these measures as necessary for its own national security, such military expansion by a neighboring country tends to increase suspicion rather than build confidence.

Bangladesh has not pursued an aggressive policy against any country. However, it has every right to strengthen its defense capabilities to safeguard its sovereignty. Whether through fighter aircraft, missile systems, air defense systems, or international defense cooperation, these are sovereign decisions of Bangladesh. When India acquires Rafale fighter jets, deploys BrahMos missiles, or signs defense agreements with various countries, it does not seek permission from its neighbors. The same principle should apply to Bangladesh.

Bangladesh's foreign policy should be guided by the principle of "Bangladesh First." It will develop relations with China, the United States, Türkiye, Japan, the Gulf countries, and others solely on the basis of its national interests. Whether these decisions make any particular country comfortable or uncomfortable cannot be the determining factor. It has also become clear that Bangladesh will neither join any geopolitical bloc nor accept subordination to any power.

Several other issues have also increased tensions in relations with India. The recent "push-in" incidents along the border violate established diplomatic norms. There are diplomatic mechanisms available to verify the identity of suspected individuals; forcing people across the border is not an acceptable solution. Furthermore, using Bangladesh's minority issue as a geopolitical pressure tool and allowing banned political forces to find refuge and conduct political activities from Indian territory cannot be regarded as the conduct of a friendly neighbor.

India's perceived "big brother" approach has contributed to mistrust in its relations with several South Asian neighbors. When neighboring countries seek to protect their own national interests, they are often viewed with suspicion. Such a mindset is an obstacle to building sustainable and genuine friendships.

Bangladesh is not a weak country. Its strategic location on the Bay of Bengal, its population, economic potential, and growing geopolitical significance have strengthened its position. Bangladesh does not seek war or conflict, but neither will it compromise on its dignity or sovereignty.

If India genuinely seeks friendship, it must demonstrate that commitment through equality, mutual respect, and non-interference in Bangladesh's internal affairs. Bangladesh's message is clear: We seek peace and cooperation—not control or dominance. Respect for each other's sovereign decisions is the only foundation upon which lasting trust and a sustainable bilateral relationship can be built.